Q: I have thought about this email for some time and I feel I need advice as I have nowhere to turn to. I have been with my husband for around 30 years and have incredible kids of varying ages. There is an age gap of approximately 10 years and I was relatively young when we met with limited sexual experience. To fast-forward some years, both of us had affairs. I cannot pass comment on his reasons as they are his to hold. I believe mine were a lack of real-world experience, a lack of intimacy in our marriage, kids etc.