SINGAPORE: A man ended up loathing his “provider mindset” after he racked up S$8,000 in debt from financially supporting his two ex-girlfriends. In a Reddit post titled “In S$8000 debt because of... This article ( ‘I paid for shelter, food, transport’ – Singaporean regrets racking up S$8k debt for ex-girlfriends ) first appeared on The Independent Singapore News .