My stingy husband earns £150k but I'm in debt because we don't have a joint bank account and he doesn't pay for the children's uniforms or trips. His latest financial refusal has made me realise this truth about him and myself...
Separate bank accounts suited us when we first got together in our 20s, but it clearly doesn't work now we're in our 40s and share three children. Certainly not at this time of year.